TOPIC 5: THE LIVING STYLE OF THE YOUTH

THE LIVING STYLE OF THE YOUTH

Many people say that : ”The living style of the Youth in these days is not good as the one in the old time”. I think this statement is rather right, but it’s not completely right. Since when we want to evaluate something, whether it’s right or not, we have to find out the cause of it. I guess because of the vigorous development of our society, especially the profound change of the technology and the industry and the way of the parents’ education, the living style of the human is effected a lots. Thus, the living style of the Youth in our days is not rather good and there are many reasons that cause this alert status.

In our modern life, you can see that many young people have a very strange style of living. In the past, the young ages always listened to their parents, just did what their parents wanted, and they never dared to dispute with them. But now, some of the youth often do what they want, they don’t need to know whether it’s right or wrong. Even, they can desert their home to go out with their friends for many days without asking their parents for permission. Do you know why? I think because they have a heated discussion with their parents about their private problem or they get angry when their parents rebuke them or their parents don’t indulge them. Besides, some people whose parents are the rich, they spend money without thinking. They never cogitate how their parents earn money or how miserable their parents have to endure when working. For these reasons, the strange style of living of some young people make the old feel uncomfortable and think that this living style is not good as the one in the past.

However, I think anything also has the reasons. Have you ever wondered why they have this living style. In my opinion, the way of education of their parents and the influence of our society’s activities are the main reasons that make some of the Youth live like that. In our busy life, some parents are absorbed in earning money, they don’t have enough time to show their concern to their children. Because in the morning when their children get up to go to school, they’re still sleeping and in the evening when they come back home, their children have gone to bed. As the result, they just give money for their children and hire the domestics to take care of their children. The children can’t receive their parents’ love, they just get the money from them, so they want to do something wrong to get their parents’ care to avoid solitary. Besides, because of the activities of our society, it means the development of our society, the children have to learn very hard to keep pace with this vigorous expanse. They don’t have enough time to relax and don’t have the infancy like the ones in the past. Thus, when they grow up, they don’t want to continue to learn, they just want to play with friends. And it makes the heated discussion between their parents and them. Correspondingly, I can say that the youth don’t want to live like that, it’s just because of their parents and the society.

In general, this statement is not wrong, it’s rather right, but we have to find out the real reason that cause this alert status. And all of us can know that we have two main reasons: first, the way that the parents take care of and educate the children, and second, the influences of the development of our society. Therefore, when we know the reasons, we can find out the solution to help the youth get out of this strange style of living. It’s very necessary for us to do that.